Ok so my 45 to wife has been sexting with a black stud for a few months now, a fantasy her whole life to have sex with a hung black stud becoming what appears to be more realized, but the guy lives out of state and it won't be likely with him. She knows I encourage her and their texting has been very sexual, swapping pics and more. It's hot and I hope she ramps it up!
So I confess I went into her phone without her knowing and found some texts from her son's 25 yo friend saying how sexy she is, he can't keep his eyes off her, complimented her outfit on more than one occasion when he came over, and has told her what he wants to do with her. Her replies were dismissing, saying you shouldn't text me stuff like that and I'm too old for you, but she wasn't outright saying to stop, didn't block him or erase the messages, so I wonder if she was into it. She was likely flattered but I wonder if she would take it further now that she is familiar and into sexting. Should I confront the guy, encourage him to text her more with more pressure and see if I can make something happen or just keep spying on her texts to see what she does? It's a conundrum for sure. Any advice out there?
Including a pic of my sexy milf wife so you can see why she would attract this kind of behavior.
