This more of a question, than a confession.
I am married, and sex with my husband is great, but with my ex I did a lots of butt stuff. Now, he was very open, sexually, and that is how I know of this place, and at the time, I kind of enjoyed doing it with him, but I had no idea that I will miss it so much, if it ever stops.
Long story short, we broke up, soon after I met my ,now husband, and everything is great, except that one thing, that he is not interested in doing. Now, you will advise, "talk to him, tell him", I tried, but every time I would lead his fingers to my back, or I tried sweet talking him to do it, while we are having sex, or making out, he just stays quiet, like he didn't hear anything, and ignores me.
It is not the end of the world, but I miss tongue on my anus, and sometimes even a cock in it. Is there any way I can compel him to do this?